Children today are spoiled a lot by their own parents, perhaps because the parents themselves were deprived of so many thing in their childhood, they want their children to have everything they themselves were deprived of and even more. Parents don't want to have their children feel embarrassed or simply sad because they don't get what they want, or don't have the things their friends have, since the parents themselves have gone through the same experience and know that it is not easy. Parents don't open their eyes to the fact that they are doing their children more harm than good, they are even doing themselves harm since their children get more and more stubborn, demanding, and hard to control.
As for psychologists who say that parents must not let their children feel sad because that might affect their ego, they simply have to stay aside and let the parents do their jobs rather than coming up with nonsense philosophies. Parents know their children more than anybody else in the world, they simply want the best for their children, and no psychologist would know what is better for the children than his or her parents!!!
Totally agree !! Parents are the ultimate role models for children. no other person or outside force has a greater influence on a child than the parent
ReplyDeleteLets just hope we do a good job with our own children at least!
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ReplyDeleteAs you have said the thing is that they don't want to prevent them from anything, but they are not aware that they are spoiling them in which they are making them irresponsible and careless
ReplyDeleteI honestly would never spoil my children because there is nothing worse then having kids who are spoiled brats!!
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